Building a profile that gets replies
Tell members who you are - completing your profile dramatically increases the responses you get.
A headline and a short introduction are required; the rest is optional but worth doing. Write about yourself in a positive, genuine way - your interests, your habits, and the kind of person you're hoping to meet. For your safety, don't include your email address, phone number, or other personal contact details anywhere in your profile.
Editing your profile
About Me
Your basics, interests and lifestyle preferences.
I Am Seeking
The qualities and features you're looking for.
My Introduction
Your headline, introduction and a few prompts to express yourself.
My Photos
Upload and arrange your photos, then save your changes.
Headline tips
Your headline is a short phrase at the top of your profile - keep contact details out of it. A good headline is short, simple and a little playful, enough to make someone curious. Borrow a line from a favorite author, song or film, or twist a well-known slogan to fit you. Be honest: clichés like "generous catch looking for romance" read as insincere, while something specific - "soft-spoken hiker looking for a steady, easygoing match" - says more and draws better replies.
Introduction tips
Take your time and lead with your real strengths and what you care about. Be specific - don't just say "I love music," say what kind. Name a few of your best qualities without bragging, and be honest about your deal-breakers, kindly. Write a draft, sleep on it, then come back and edit for clarity and spelling.